advice from me to you babe

please start living for you, choosing you, and only doing what you feel called to do.

it may sound morbid but we’re doing all of this just to die one day babe so why would you not choose you in all that you do?

if you know me and you know me well, i’ve said it once and i’ll say it again: if telling someone else yes is telling you, your soul, or your spirit no, the answer is a big fat fucking no.

without a doubt, without judgment, without shame, the ultimate and final answer is no.

it’s okay to choose you, but at the same time if you do choose you what’s the point if all you’re going to do is beat yourself up over your decision?

think about that…there’s almost more torment in that process than just choosing to believe someone else am I wrong?

the only validation you need comes from within. everything you need is within you.

i promise you the only place you have to look for the answers is to yourself. but when you do or if you do, you have to do it with the most absolute trust within what you’re going to find because again what is the point of doing so if you don’t trust it?

that voice, the right one, that inner knowing, that intuition

why listen to it if you genuinely don’t believe in it or trust that it is right? all you’re going to do is torture yourself if you don’t. again we are here to have a pleasurable experience not to be miserable. 

we are in charge of our reality and what we are not changing we are choosing remember that.

you can’t sit there in agony and blame the people around you or the environment you’re in when you’ve done nothing to remove yourself from it or them.

you know what’s meant for you i promise that you do. please do yourself and i the favor of going after what you feel called to do quit forcing yourself to be someone you’re not or to do things that do not feel aligned with you.

you don’t have to. it’s so simple babe. i promise the only one forcing you to do so is you.

fuck the validation of other people. the only thing that matters is you and your happiness, again we are the creators. we get to decide how we live our lives. why choose to suffer when you could choose a genuinely pleasurable experience?