REJECTION IS REDIRECTION

 Everything happens for a reason.

When shit doesn't work out the way you originally planned, it simply means that it wasn't supposed to. Let that sink in. When you think of rejection in this way, it can be rather comforting. It may not feel natural at first to accept defeat, but once you realize that rejection is purely redirection, you detach from the need to control every anticipated outcome.  

Trust me, I have struggled with this for as long as I could remember. But eventually you have to come to terms with the fact that shit happens. We cannot control every single thing in our lives, and that's a good thing! Imagine if we could...How much growth we would miss out on. How many lessons we would never learn. How many experiences we would never have or risks we would never take. People we would never meet. Redirection is beautiful once you allow it to occur. Constantly trying to control every situation, ignoring redirection, and refusing rejection will only keep you in the vicious cycle of having to relearn the same lessons over and over again. Sometimes all you can do is surrender to it. That is when you will be directed to the outcomes that are aligned with you and that are meant for you! 

It sounds easy, I know, but what do I always say?

IT'S NOT SUPPOSED TO BE EASY.

If rejection was easy, then we'd all be open to redirection and be the most healed versions of ourselves, now wouldn't we? In a perfect world, this may be the case, but unfortunately most people prefer the comfort of remaining in their current state, even if they are miserable. See, you don't randomly all of a sudden crave change. You are drawn to everything for a reason. You are being divinely guided towards what is meant for you in this lifetime. The more you deny yourself of it by trying to control what you think you want, the longer you will wait to be fulfilled. 

I promise you that it'll all work out. There may be times where it feels like nothing is going your way, but remember that if it was supposed to, it would. Allow the universe to be rigged in your favor and trust that what is meant for you cannot and will not pass you by. Divine Timing is real. 

Everything happens for a reason.