HOT GIRLS CRY ON THEIR BIRTHDAYS

 NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU. 

Not a man.

Not your parents. 

Not your friends.

No one.

Quit waiting around hoping that some day your knight in shining armor is going to show up at your doorstep with flowers and profess his undying love for you. Wake up babe, it's not going to happen. 

Stop idolizing men who do not see your value. 

Stop wasting your energy on a connection that is not reciprocal.

Stop being delulu and gaslighting yourself into thinking he's "the one." 

If he was, you wouldn't be sitting at home waiting to get a hbd text from him and crying on your birthday now would you? 

That's what I thought. 

It's time to put yourself on the pedestal and prioritize you. You are the prize. Start valuing yourself the way you so desperately wanted him to. 

Your parents and your friends also won't always be there to catch you when you fall. I hate to be the one to say it, but it's true. It's time to start living for you. Detach from everyone else's expectations of you and do what you truly feel drawn to. 

Explore the ideas you have been suppressing. Allow yourself the freedom to discover your true purpose. No one is stopping you, but you. Get out of your own way and stop letting your limiting beliefs make your decisions for you. 

You are capable of what you desire, or you wouldn't feel drawn to them in the first place. Trust yourself and your intuition. You know what's right; and if it don't feel right, then baby it ain't right. Take the leap knowing you're the only one who's jumping and no one will be at the bottom but you. It's up to you whether or not you land safely. Quit interfering with what is meant for you and trying to force things that are not aligned with you or your highest good. 

What is meant for you will find you. Redirect your attention back to your evolution and continue to grow into the person you are proud to be. Do that and I bet you next year there won't be as many tears as there were this year...