PRINCESS TREATMENT

Okay, so us baddies are familiar with princess treatment, it's been viral on Tik Tok for a minute now. But most of us do not receive or have not experienced princess treatment in our relationships; we've only seen or heard about it on a screen. This leads us to ask one of two questions: Are men actually capable of providing and maintaining princess treatment? Or am I just attracting trash ass men? Lol. I am here to tell you that both answers to those questions are yes! Men are going to respond to the standards you set. If your standards are asking the bare minimum of a man, why would he exceed them if he technically doesn't have to for you to be "satisfied"? This is why the men you keep attracting suck! 

Everyone you meet is a reflection of you.

Reread that as many times as you need to get it through your head. The people you connect with will reflect your attributes, insecurities, unhealed traumas, your self worth, etc. That's the beauty of relationships, they teach us so much about who we are. The hardest part is recognizing what is being reflected back to us so that we can heal and continue to evolve into the highest versions of ourselves. 

Back to our discussion on princess treatment...lol. Now that we've discovered that it is in fact real, let's talk about the reality of receiving princess treatment. I'll be honest with you, for me, it was incredibly foreign at first. I have always advocated for princess treatment, but had never actually received it. Once you begin to behave and view yourself as a high quality woman, that is when you will begin to attract high quality men. They're out there, trust me! But when you finally do begin dating men who provide princess treatment, it's almost impossible to not feel a little guilty. It was hard for me to realize that my presence alone is enough for me to be treated with respect. I was so used to "earning" it or feeling like I had to give something in return to be valued. 

FUCK THAT MINDSET. 

Ladies, we are the prize. We are no longer competing with these zesty men for princess treatment. We deserve to have our doors opened for us, meals paid for, and for dates to be organized. This is the new bare minimum period. There is nothing more attractive than a man with a damn plan! Remember that you are deserving of respect and stop settling for less than you want. The more you allow yourself to connect with low quality men, the more you are damaging the relationship you have with yourself. You are worthy of princess treatment no matter how foreign it may feel at first, and I promise you once you are treated like a princess, you'll realize there is no going back.