advice from me to you babe
please start living for you, choosing you, and only doing what you feel called to do. it may sound morbid but we’re doing all of this just to die one day babe so why would you not choose you in all that you do? if you know me and you know me well, i’ve said it once and i’ll say it again: if telling someone else yes is telling you, your soul, or your spirit no, the answer is a big fat fucking no. without a doubt, without judgment, without shame, the ultimate and final answer is no. it’s okay to choose you, but at the same time if you do choose you what’s the point if all you’re going to do is beat yourself up over your decision? think about that…there’s almost more torment in that process than just choosing to believe someone else am I wrong? the only validation you need comes from within. everything you need is within you. i promise you the only place you have to look for the answers is to yourself. but when you do or if you do, you have to do it with the most absolute trust within wha...
